3 dating mistakes women do that men secretly hate
The mistakes mentioned in this article are general mistakes that bother many men, but are talked about mostly within the circle of men. So, take notes and you'll increase your chances of making a positive impression on your date.
1: Wearing a lot of makeup
It's very normal to become nervous before going on a date, but that doesn't mean you should feel the need to impress by piling on tons of makeup. Contrary to what a lot of women believe, most men prefer women with a natural looking face. One fear is that the woman whose face he fell in love with is not the same face he'll wake up with in the morning. This is not to say that looks are the most important aspect, but the truth is that they are very important to many men.
And you would want to find a man that loves you for how you look, not how you pretend to look. This doesn't mean you have to go without makeup. It just means that you should take a natural approach and a light hand. Don't opt for heavy foundation, tons of powder, lots of bright eye shadows, dramatic lipstick, heavy eyeliner, and mascara! This would scare most people away. Instead, opt for some mascara (without clumping), neutral colored blush, no lip color but moisturized lips, and a little foundation if necessary.
2: Using sex as a secret weapon.
Some women use sex as a secret weapon in order to get men to do what they want. This is deceptive and not healthy for a relationship. Some women may promise men sex if they buy them certain things or take them to a certain place. Also, if the couple's dating turns serious, if a woman is mad at her partner for not doing something she wanted, she will use it against him and not have sexual relations with him because of it.
The solution is for men not to become too dependent or desperate on having sex with a woman. Women shouldn't use it as a bargaining chip as it can cause men to lose respect for her and to become angry. It's manipulation and could cause a relationship to end. Plus, it sets the relationship up on a shaky foundation not built on love, but sex.
3: Bringing up ex boyfriends.
This mistake happens more with younger women, but the rule applies to all ages. To be very blunt, when women mention their ex-boyfriends men are thinking that (insert the ex-boyfriend's name) is the man who had sexual relations with his date. It's not a very positive thought, so avoid it. And besides, it's disrespectful to talk about past relationships when you are currently dating someone else.